(spring evening family walk)kid-friendly:
-petexpo. this was held in the messukeskus and had mostly purebred cats and dogs, but also lizards, frogs, guinea pigs, rabbits, hedgehogs, and a whole host of other exotic pets. there wasnt much for the uninterested adult, but X and her little friend who went with us loved it. X wanted to go up and down every aisle of cat carriers and peek inside. we were pressed for time so we couldnt see all the exotic animals which was a real bummer for her, we will have to return next year.
-samba carnaval. this is a music and dance festival that takes place on senate square. in the later afternoon there is a parade through the downtown. thankfully X dozed before the parade because then she had the energy and patience to handle the nearly 2 hour parade extravaganza! wow, its been a while since ive seen one that long. but with all the music, dancing, feathers, and costumes, it was definitely a worthwhile time, perhaps not something i have the stamina to do every year, but it was fun.
-helsinki fashion house. this is mostly a wholesale place, i think, but they have big sales open to the public here a few times a year, we went in mid-march. a friend invited us so we took our girls and wandered around looking for deals. we ended up with some nice kid accessories (winter hat and mittens, a few princess items, and some nail polish). we also had a nice post-shopping break in the downstairs cafeteria with a sweet treat. it was crowded, for finland, but absolutely NOTHING compared to american-crowded. i can handle that any year. in fact, it might be a fun mother-daughter thing.
-helsinki university great hall. dave and i went to an award event here (he had won a grant earlier in the year). its one of the universitys oldest and most formal buildings. it was a pretty space, but i think having UMs law quad buildings to compare them to meant it wasnt especially impressive for me. and the event itself was un.believably. boring. the monotone of the administrative speakers and the contrived speeches that the guest speakers were forced to take part in, coupled with the weird interlude of a jazz ensemble was almost too much for me. afterward there was an appetizer/champagne reception. we grabbed some food and bolted. i told dave he will fly solo if he is invited to one of those again.
(reception food; dave liked the practical champagne glass holder that was attached to each dish)
-håkansbölen kartano in vantaa. our landlords invited us to lunch the day after easter and we happily accepted. after eating our tasty meal (hungarian goulash and 'american-style' cheesecake) we went for a walk on the beautiful, natural, public, estate lands that border their backyard. rolling hills, a mansion, stables, streams, hiking, biking, cross-country skiing trails. very serene.
-sandro. this restaurant is in the artist/hipster neighborhood of kallio, but had quite a varied clientele when we went for brunch. the atmosphere was really nice, there were beautiful spreads of food (tasty north african/middle eastern dishes) bursting with really great flavors. its definitely worth the price every so often.
-kaski. this is in the latokartano neighborhood nearby. we were too strapped for time to shop or cook one weekday dinner, so we tried this place. it had a nice atmosphere, friendly waitress, decent food choices/prices and it tasted pretty good.
-ristorante dennis. this is a local chain of pizza restaurants with gluten-free options. the pizza was tasty, there were lots of choices, and its a nice place for kids too. im happy to find another good eat-out place.
(she loves her pineapple/ham pizzas)
-manteli lounas. this is the cafeteria for the business park across the street from my work. the full lunch buffet is close to 10€, but the food is good. its too pricey to be a regular choice, but if there is nothing palatable at the university cafeteria at least i have a second option.
-koti pizza. a local take-out pizza joint, great for those times when we just dont want to cook. its in the next town over so we still have to make the plan to either do the bus round-trip (at least you can pre-order your pizza on-line) or choke on the 8+ € delivery fee.
-kosken ranta. a cafe/restaurant at the waters edge in vanhakaupunki. it has outdoor seating and overlooks our favorite nature spot in the city. X and i stopped in to have a dessert after a picnic one fine spring day. i have to say, this place is great, we will be back.
(post-dessert happiness in the wildflowers)
-martina. a generic cafe/bistro place. we had an average lunch here one day. we had wanted to try the place around the corner, but it was closed and this turned out to be a tolerable alternative.
-punavuoren peikko. a kids clothing store in the downtown design district. they carry finnish and some other nordic country designs. some of the brands are at decent prices, others are pretty pricey. but its on a nice block in a nice neighborhood, so its worth a stop-in anyhow.
-international market on hakaniemi square. this occurs the first sunday of each month. tents on the outside market square of hakaniemi are set-up selling a number of things, mostly food. its a nice place to walk through with the family.
(actually not international, these are fried finnish fish at the international market)
-falkulla farm. we went here on a sunny sunday afternoon with friends. we had a picnic and X and her friend rode their bikes, they fed the goats copious amounts of greens and everyone had a lovely time...despite the heat and sunburns (on the adults, not the kiddo).
-arabian street festival. we did this neighborhood block party-type thing again this year. the weather was totally perfect this year (last year it was rainy). the yard sales, music, dancing, street performing, graffiti artists, art students crafts and wares, children and children activities, treats, and the sales at the finnish home design stores were so fun. and being able to do them all in basically a one block area was great. i think we'll be doing this one every year.
(first chocolate ice cream cone, ever, at the street festival. it was a hit. lol)
-i love hearing non-americans size up people of other nationalities. my doula was telling me that when it comes to work ethic and work behavior, norwegians are similar to finns. they get to the point, make a plan, and do what needs to be done. she mentioned swedes as being more wishy-washy and that you can come away from a meeting with swedes with pages full of notes that dont amount to much and still wonder what the plan is and what your role is. but her opinions on the danes were really amusing. as a people, in general, she said that since the danish people are from the oldest kingdom in europe, they tend to think and act as if they are superior. her opinion on their work behavior was that they will race to be the first to apply for project funding, describing some lofty idea, but when it comes time to put the plan in place they have no practical details laid out for how to actually get it done step-by-step.
-from work colleagues, (im learning all kinds of 'insider' tidbits. i love it) i was told more about drinking behaviors in finland. the finnish guys i ate with one day said that the purpose of drinking in finland is to get drunk. its not about pairing a well-selected bottle of wine with the perfect meal, or about that one glass of celebratory bubbly, or that high quality drink to wind down at the end of the weekday...no, you drink...to get drunk. this explains the VERY typical weekend drinking purchases i see of perhaps about 80% of people at the grocery store buying 8-12 cans of the cheapest/shittiest beer on the shelves. this is their serving size to get drunk. working people only do this drunk drinking on weekends because they dont want their behavior to interfere with their ability to do quality work. however, i am also told that, at least for the typical person, driving is taken very seriously surrounding drinking issues. if you have two beers, you know to take yourself out of the driving pool. even one drink of something stronger than beer and you are designating someone sober to drive.
-i think this alcohol behavior also helps crack the code on finns coffee consumption and other curiosities. along the same 'drink to get drunk' goal, i think their coffee goal is 'drink to get buzzed'. i have read that finns are something like the worlds leaders in coffee consumption, per capita, and yet all ive heard is how crap the coffee offerings are here. dont think that because consumption is high that flavor and quality rivals france, italy, turkey, or other countries where i hear coffee actually tastes like something worthy of being praised.
and then it got me thinking...well, this northern country has had a long history of harsh winters, isolation from much of the rest of the world (which includes the fact that waterways were iced over much of the year before the times of powerful icebreaker ships, so nothing could get in or out), and even once technologies were opening the world up to them, the world wars hit and there was lots of uncertainty for finns. when they made the goal to buckle down and pay off their war debts, it kept their behaviors in the frugal zone. since they werent importing lots of fancy foods from warmer climates they were doing what they could with their meat, fish, potatoes, and other root vegetable staples and basically eating to be full (to go along with drinking to get drunk and caffeinating to get buzzed, regardless of quality). armed with their traditions and sisu, they marched along accepting these realities, and actually made their country a wonderful place to be alive, even if it meant not having fancy, extravagant luxuries in food and frivolous indulgences (though this is slowly changing, of course). it certainly puts the people and their ways in greater perspective.
-easter dessert. so the traditional easter dessert here called is mämmi. its basically water, rye flour, and molasses. i cant try it because of the gluten but dave said it basically tastes like molasses pudding. not something he would crave, but edible. X seemed to think it was decent, though not awesome. i must say too that if you wanted to make something edible that looked like fake poo...this would be the stuff. very realistic. :)
-this year, with easter being late and vappu/may day (may 1) shortly thereafter, i think tons of people used this excuse (coupled with the unprecedented lovely weather) to just get the hell out of town. even the week before easter, over palm sunday weekend, people were leaving in droves. according to peoples behavior at work this was a good time to take 2-3 weeks off. i really want to get into this finnish vacation groove some year soon. also, with the month of may comes like 5 public holidays, so really its a quick (some might say bipolar) changeover from the hardworking, dull, hermit-like winter finnish behavior to the relaxed escape-ism of the warmer weather vacationing behavior.
-further, any nice weather day along the way before true summer vacation comes is fair game for finns to leave work early. they really watch the weather updates and especially if cooler, grey weather is on the horizon, a sunny warm day will nearly guarantee people are leaving work early to be outside, have bbqs, take the kids to playgrounds, get out of town...it can almost make you feel like there was a hurricane evacuation issued, thats how many people have the same idea at the same time.
-work sabbaticals. (note: the exact details may be a bit off here, but the general program exists in finland). a finnish mom friend was telling me that in finland, once youve been in the work force for something like ~10 years, you can take, essentially, a sabbatical. this where you get 6 months off work with something like 75% of your pay while you are off doing whatever you want...vacationing, focusing on a serious hobby, watching tv, whatever. they take someone else out of the unemployment pool to fill your position in the interim and your job is held for you to come back to. you can take this sabbatical something like every 5 years or so. ive certainly heard of this in the academic world, however usually sabbatical there implies you are still doing work, but you are permitted to do it at another institution, as a way to further your collaboration bonds. its SO cool to hear about it as an option for all jobs here. and you get a real break.
-of all the salad bars ive seen here, ive never seen one with shredded cheese as a choice, despite their massive love of dairy here.
-we went to our bank to open a savings account and get advice on other investments. we got the savings account, but it turns out that due to u.s. regulations we are unable to get advice about how to invest our money in another country. to the womans knowledge, we are the only country in the world with this rule.
-i got my finnish drivers license. it took some paperwork and collecting some items before applying, but it only cost 51€ and expires in 15 years! awesome.
-id say that the longer daylight hours started affecting my sleep in mid-may, so i dug out an airplane sleeping mask. it helps, but in the weeks surrounding midsummer its just hard for me to get real rest. its a sleep challenge of a different sort, compared to winter, but its still a challenge i dont really enjoy. it seems my body is still most used to its american life, which is most closely approximated here in the months surrounding the spring and fall equinoxes.
-midsummers eve. this is the day before summer solstice. it is celebrated here in finland with lots of drinking, bbqing, and sitting around bonfires all day/night at your woodland cottage. the highways are packed the days before midsummer as people are leaving the city in droves to start their official summer vacation...to be back in early august, if theyre lucky.